Have you ever felt like your chest is about to explode and it’s killing you slowly from inside? This unsettling feeling that keep waking your brain up in the middle of the night.
You need to let that out. One way or another, whether you’re comfortable or not by doing it.
This past few months, I’ve experienced and seen many changes around me. The peaceful and fun world that I’ve lived in for the past years is no longer there. Reality struck, and it struck real hard. I realized last year, that my life was no longer full of dramas. It’s no longer a drama–it’s a life changing moment.
Those moments literally hit a lot of people and since then everything was no longer the same as it was before. For some, it was a good changing, but for some others, it hurts like hell.
and for some reasons, I saw people keep all of that for themselves and I saw them hurting themselves without even realizing it. It’s kind of sad.
I believe when you got problems, the very first people that can help you is your own self. Allow yourself to talk with your family or your friends. Let it out. Just like what Randy Newman said in one of his song..
If you’ve got troubles, I’ve got ’em too
There isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for you
We stick together and can see it through
Cause you’ve got a friend in me
Randy Newman – You’ve Got a Friend in Me
You know.. it’s not about what they will say to you about it or how they will react to it or what kind of solution that they can provide.
It’s simply about the feeling and the understanding that you are not alone on this. Not then, not now, not tomorrow.
And maybe… in an unpredictable way, by talking it out, you help them too.